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RALEIGH, NC  ✦  SINCE 2004  ✦  SOBER  ✦  CONSENT-FIRST

Changing the world, one moment of pleasure at a time.

A different way of being in your body, in your relationships, and in a room full of people. Private work, trainings, gatherings, a members' club, and the Summit — one philosophy, five ways in. Sober and consent-first, in Raleigh since 2004.

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Bliss Boogie

What are you here for?

The dance between our inner truth and outer expression — the balance point where harmony, joy, and presence meet.

BLISS BOOGIE · THE WORLD

That is the definition, and it is the whole company. A private practice, practitioner trainings, gatherings through the year, a members' club, and the Summit — one philosophy, five ways to take part.

“Your no is as sexy as your yes.”

You came looking for something more honest.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF…

  • You want to experience safety in education & exploration.

  • Your mind & heart are open to new ideas and ways of being.

  • You have a desire to live authentically — and believe others have the same right.

  • You are yearning for new experiences.

  • You want to have fun while being kind.

You do not need to be flexible, experienced, or partnered. You do not need to know the words yet. Come as you are.

What are you here for?

CHOOSE YOUR ADVENTURE
Not sure where to start?

Find your way in.

Two quick questions. No wrong answers.

I am here…

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Hands at work in the studio I

…to be held

Come home to your body.

Private sessions ✦ bodywork, tantra yoga, coaching

One-on-one in a private Raleigh studio, paced to you. Licensed massage and bodywork, LMBT NC #9699.

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A gathering under the tent II

…to play

Come play, talk, and practice.

Pause & Play ✦ Beyond Small Talk ✦ Practice Lab

Games, conversation, and practice with people who came for the same reason.

See the gatherings
Kai in meditation III

…to grow

Come learn to hold this work.

Practitioner trainings ✦ Level 1 & 2

Four-month immersions for the ones who want to carry this work into their own rooms. Level 1 begins April 2.

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Hands on shoulders under the lanterns IV

…to belong

Come stay a while.

Bliss Boogie Connections ✦ $120 a year

“We show you the door, but you have to walk through it.”

Start with the application
Dancers at the Summit V

…to celebrate

Come to the Summit.

Education, music, celebration ✦ sober ✦ 18+

Growing toward a Summit for every season. Next: the Spring Summit, April 23.

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DATES · GATHERINGS FOR THE WHOLE YEAR

A year of connection, practice & adventure.

Bliss Boogie is creating more ways to gather throughout the year. You don't have to attend everything. Come to what calls you.

ALL 2027 DATES →
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Find your people

Come as you are, bring your curiosity, and let the connections unfold naturally.

Photo · Pause & Play Open to all

Pause & Play

Play first. Connection follows.

Jan 16Apr 17Aug 21

Photo · Beyond Small Talk Open to all

Beyond Small Talk

Conversations that matter.

Feb 20May 15

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Practice Lab

Learn less. Practice more.

Mar 20Jul 17

Where to find us next.

  • 18–19 Sept2026

    The Bliss Boogie Summit

    Raleigh · Saturday open, Friday sold out · $150

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  • 16 Jan2027

    Pause & Play

    Play first. Connection follows.

    Details coming
  • 20 Feb2027

    Beyond Small Talk

    Conversations that matter.

    Details coming
  • 20 Mar2027

    Practice Lab

    Learn less. Practice more.

    Members
  • 2–4 Apr2027

    Level 1 Practitioner Training · Weekend 1

    Four months, four weekends.

    The training
  • 23 Apr2027

    Spring Summit

    An evening of lecture and conversation.

    Details coming 
FOR YOUR BODY  ✦  PRIVATE SESSIONS

Come home to your own body first.

For the one whose body is carrying more than it should, and for the one who is simply curious.

Wednesday to Friday, noon to eight ✦ 218 Snow Ave, Raleigh

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FOR THE ONES WHO WILL CARRY IT  ✦  TRAININGS

For the people who want to hold this work for others.

For the practitioner, the seeker, the one who is ready to deepen a practice and carry it into the room.

Level 1 ✦ April – July 2027

Level 1 Practitioner Training

A four-month experiential training exploring presence, embodied awareness, nervous-system capacity, touch, connection, and the foundational practices of the Bliss Boogie approach.

April 2–4Weekend 1
May 1–3Weekend 2
June 4–6Weekend 3
July 9–11Weekend 4
Level 2 ✦ August – November 2027

Level 2 Practitioner Training

Continues the work for practitioners ready to deepen their skills. Dates to be announced.

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“We show you the door, but you have to walk through it.”PARTICIPATION ✦ ONE OF SIX VALUES
FOR THE ONES WHO STAY✦THE MEMBERSHIP CLUB

Our membership club is for you if…

You want to have fun while being kind to your fellow club members.

Your mind & heart are open to new ideas and ways of being.

You have a desire to live authentically — and believe others have the same right.

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CLUB MEMBER $120 A YEAR  ✦  ABOUT 30 MINUTES TO APPLY

SIX VALUES HOLD THE CLUB TOGETHER

Reverence ✦ Participation ✦ Expression ✦ Integrity ✦ Accountability ✦ Alchemy

FOR EVERYONE, EVERY SEASON  ✦  THE SUMMIT

A Summit for every season.

Education, music, and conscious celebration. Next: the Spring Summit on April 23, an evening of lecture and conversation. In autumn, the Summit returns with a Day of Exploration & Adventure.

In 2027 it grows
Apr 23A spring evening of lecture and conversation
AutumnThe Summit, plus a Day of Exploration & Adventure
In timeOne for every season
Spring Summit ✦ April 23 Sober ✦ 18+ Raleigh
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EXPLORE THE SUMMIT

Single or partnered. New or returning. It is for everyone who wants fun while being kind.

Since 2004Raleigh · LMBT #9699
KAI BAYLIS ✦  FOUNDER, CREATOR, PRACTITIONER

Built from years of practice, teaching, and gathering people together.

Since 2004, I've had the honor of working with thousands of individuals and hundreds of couples, helping them reconnect to themselves, their pleasure, and their truth. What began as a small private practice has evolved into a community movement centered on embodiment, consent, and genuine human connection.

  • Trained in the Source School of Tantra Yoga, the Erotic Blueprint, Urban Tantra, Ashtanga, and Medical Qigong. Licensed massage and bodywork therapist, LMBT NC #9699.
  • Created two large-scale festivals — over 300 attendees the first year, more than 400 the second — honored with a North Carolina Press Association Award for being the first of its kind in the South.
  • Teaching classes, workshops, and trainings since 2012, and hosting a monthly community gathering ever since.
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FOUNDER · RALEIGH

Kai Baylis

AS COVERED BY

The Assembly VoyageRaleigh Business News Network NC Press Association Award

What people say when they leave the room.

IN THEIR WORDS
4.9 on Google ✦ 17 reviews ✦ The Living Room, Raleigh
★★★★★
“From the soothing fragrance in the air, the artistic decor, the gentle music, and to the undivided attention from Kai, I felt safe and divinely held. The session I received felt so personal and customized to my needs.”
Saya K.Google review
★★★★★
“Her knowledge of tantra, yoga, qi gong, and massage combined in an incredible experience for me. She has tremendous knowledge and wisdom, and knows how to embody it.”
Matt S.Google review
★★★★★
“My partner and I had an amazing time and learned so much. The energy there is great. I highly recommend a couples session.”
Brooklin G.Google review

Where do you want to begin?

SO GLAD YOU FOUND US
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Wednesday to Friday, noon to eight · 218 Snow Ave, Raleigh

Welcome home…. ~Kai

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